you don’t need evidence

Last week, we challenged what progress looks and feels like.

Many of us have been sold the idea that when we hit plateaus or struggles, it's a sign that we're not meant to do something.

Not always the case.

Or that we need to replicate someone else's path to succeed.

Psh nooope.

The third thing that often trips up our progress is complication.

Attracting what we want is simpler than we think.

Complication

As a kid, all I wanted to do was sing and perform.

In Tucson, there’s a western steakhouse called Pinnacle Peak.

It had a gazebo outside, where I decided I needed to do a show.

A Spice Girls show with four of my other girlfriends.

(We can lol about this another time.)

Thinking I’d have to pay to perform, I grabbed printer paper and crayons, drew pictures that looked like a 2-year-old drew them, and sold them for 25 cents each.

As unremarkable as those crayon pictures were, I remember feeling confident I could provide value and determined to make it happen.

(I ended up making $14).

I didn’t need to build a website or get a degree in music first.

I just acted.

I'm sure you can think of something similar-ish from when you were a kid.

We were bold.

We didn't need to overthink.

Keep it simple

So why, as adults, are we sheepish about proclaiming and getting what we want?

I think it's because we overcomplicate things.

We've been conditioned to believe what we want requires more effort than it does.

Also, cue emotions like shame and guilt.

Kids don't complicate or feel shame or guilt yet.

Adults build too many conditions and qualifiers around starting something new.

Common ones sound like:

I need a plan first

I need a website

I need a degree

I need time

So this brought me to the next question:

What pressures or barriers can we remove to make progress more effortless and enjoyable?

You don't need evidence

We don’t need a degree to write.

Or create videos.

Or to do most creative endeavors.

One of the best-paid copywriters I know never went to school for it.

Sometimes, a formal degree in something limits our ability to be creative.

I know many professional classical musicians who said their training makes it virtually impossible to be spontaneous or create on a whim.

So there are pros and cons to both.

It doesn’t matter if you’ve never done it before.

It doesn’t matter if someone else hasn’t done it before.

We don’t need to see evidence of something before we believe we can do it.

If we get started and accept the effort that we can give, it’s unreal the momentum we can create and what doors will open to conspire for us to succeed.

Abraham Hicks says:

“It slows you down tremendously if you need to see evidence of something before you believe it, because that means you have to wait for someone else to create it before you can believe it. But when you understand that the Universe, and the Law of Attraction, will respond to your imagined idea as quickly as it responds to an observed idea, then you can move quickly into new creations without having to wait for someone to accomplish it first."

Have any of these barriers to progress resonate with you? Anything that sparked inspiration? Send us an email! I love hearing from you.

 

Good Quote

“It’s time for you to come into your own. Don’t hold back, you are the energy that creates worlds.”

— Abraham Hicks

 

Good Question

Move up the ladder to higher vibrations by writing at the top of a blank page and see what flows from your pen (no judgment or editing!):

What would help me make progress in something that’s meaningful to me?

 

Good Thinking

I am attracting everything I want and trust that my vibration matches.

 

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Francesca Phillips

Francesca Phillips is the founder of The Good Space. She’s obsessed with self-development & helping you cut through the BS so you can live a vibrant life. She has a BA in Psychology, is an entrepreneur, host of The Good Space Podcast. Order her new book How To Not Lose Your SH*T: The Ultimate Guide To Productivity For Entrepreneurs.

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